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I
am the husband of one wife. Come June this year, my wife,
Marlu, and I will be celebrating our 30th wedding anniversary.
I have actually known Marlu for longer than that because
she and I went to high school and college together.
My
elementary education was in a Catholic private school.
From high school onwards, I studied at the University
of the Philippines, the country's foremost state-run
institution for learning. I took up Mechanical Engineering
as my undergraduate degree and Business Administration
as my master's degree.
My
wife and I are the parents of five sons29, 27,
24, 22 and 12 years old. Only the eldest, Michael, is
married, and he lives and works in Canada. My other
children are also in America with usthree in Reno,
and the other in Beaver Falls.
My
wife and I consider ourselves, and are known among our
family and friends, as born-again Christians. We were
not always so. Like the majority of Filipinos, we were
born and grew up in the Roman Catholic faith. I was
never particularly religious. My parents hardly went
to church, yet they insisted that we children should.
I viewed churchgoing as another meaningless chore I
just simply had to do on Sunday, just to comply with
my parents' wishes.
And
so before I became a Christian, I led a very carnal
and worldly life. Material wealth, career success, physical
pleasure, and recognition were the main drivers and
passions of my life. As a result, in the early years
of our marriage, Marlu and I started to drift apart.
We were so focused on being successful in our jobs that
we forgot about making our marriage a success. Yet we
were oblivious to the widening and deepening rift, mainly
because our values and priorities were self-centered
and worldly.
To
our friends and family, we projected an image of contented
domesticity. They never suspected that, deep inside,
our relationship was hurting. And then God, in His mercy
and grace, came into our livesfirst to Marlu,
through the ministry of a Campus Crusade for Christ
member, and then to me, through Marlu's sharing of the
Four Spiritual Laws. I have to admit that, while I understood
and accepted the Gospel message at that time, it all
remained in my head. I probably listened to Marlu's
sharing with the thought that I better do so or risk
losing marital peace and harmony. But deep inside, I
already felt a vague sense of disquiet that something
was wrong with the way I was living my life.
A
few months later, I remember waking up very early, feeling
restless. More and more, I felt that my life was going
nowhere, despite my career success. For some reason,
I got a Bible and opened it randomly. I came upon the
Gospel of Johnthe third chapterand my eyes
were drawn to the 16th verse. Immediately upon reading
that verse, the enormity of my sins flashed before my
eyes. Before I knew it, I was on my knees asking for
God's forgiveness for being the cause of Jesus' suffering
and death. It was that early morning experience that
I look back on as the moment of my true conversion and
the start of my spiritual rebirth.
From
that time on, my life acquired a completely different
focus and significance. My wife and I joined a Bible-believing
churchDiliman Campus Bible Churchin 1981.
Prior to going to DCBC, we were church-hopping, trying
to look for the church where we felt we would be comfortable
in. But then a sudden crisis occurred. Our third son
had to be operated on the day after he was born. Despite
the fact that we were new to DCBC, its pastor and members
came and prayed for us and made us feel for the first
time what Christian fellowship really was. We stayed
on in DCBC, and it has seen our growth as Christians.
It has been the focus of our service to the Lord since
then.
DCBC
is based in the campus of the University of the Philippines,
and it started out as a house church meeting in the
garage of one of the university professors. At first,
students made up the majority of the membership. But
over the years, this has grown into three congregations:
an early morning service in the vernacular whose attendees
come from depressed communities around the campus; a
mid-morning service composed of single professionals,
families, faculty, and administrative staff; and a sunset
service attended mainly by students. We rent a hall
on Sundays and use the homes of members for other church
activities.
At
DCBC, we have been privileged to have had, as senior
pastors, two former General Secretaries of Inter-Varsity
Christian Fellowship and, as pulpit minister for three
years, the Korean-Canadian senior pastor of Young Nak
Presbyterian Church in Toronto. Together, they have
influenced and shaped my Christian life as they faithfully
taught us the Bible and served as good examples to the
congregation. In addition, I consider my involvement
in the ministry of Bible Study Fellowship International
as being of immense importance particularly over the
events of my life these past several months leading
up to our final immigration to the US.
Bible
Study Fellowship International (or BSF) is based in
San Antonio, Texas. This is where a longtime Christian
friend and I were trained on how to set up and conduct
BSF classes for men in Manila. A BSF class consists
of anywhere between 100-500 men or women, meeting for
two hours once a week in a church hall, with the singular
purpose of studying the Bible. There are more than a
thousand BSF classes all over the world. Each year,
we study one book or a set of books intensively for
a total of 32 weeks. In 2004-2005, we studied the Acts
of the Apostles, the Pauline Epistles, books written
by Peter and John, and the Book of Ruth. This January,
the BSF classes in Manila, along with the other classes
all over the world, started on a study of the book of
Genesis.
Over
the past three months, as we studied the books of Colossians,
Ruth, and Philippians in BSF, God taught me that I need
to live in dependence on Christ and not on any other
power. As we proceeded to Ruth, I went through a difficult
time in my job situation. But God used the Book of Ruth
to remind me that His providence is sometimes harsh,
but in the end He works for the blessing of His people.
Finally, as we studied Philippians, and as I was in
the process of being considered for a position at Geneva
College, God impressed upon my heart that believers
are to display the Gospel in their lives by serving
each other in imitation of Christ. This was quite amazing
as the mission statement of Geneva, as I eventually
found out, talked about servant-leadership!
Since
as a Christian I do not believe in coincidences or accidents,
I believe that the amazing confluence of the passages
I was studying in the Bible and the lessons that had
immediate application in my current situation is clear
proof of God's sovereignty over my life and His gracious
providence in shaping my personal circumstances. And
so I believe that I am in Geneva College today because
God is moving in my life and this is where He wants
me to be at this particular time.
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